Here is an example of the chapter on observation. Observation (2)Bathing and GroomingBy NorischeThis section is focused on the basic portions of the bathing and grooming of your owner. It is important to remember that as stress levels, seasons and social activities change your owner may change his or her grooming habits. For example...if your owner has had a particularly stressful day at work, he or she may wish to take a nice hot bath by candle light and sip on a glass of wine before curling up with a good book and then going to bed. Your owner may prefer hot, hot showers on the days he or she works but on his or her day off, your owner may enjoy you attending to a long bubble bath and pampering him or her. Your owner may not wish you to bathe him or her at all, but expect you to be available to give then an oil rub down and have a warmed towel ready for after the bath. What I am trying to get you to focus on is that each owner has different habits and it is the slave's job to learn your owner, by focusing on his or her specific habits and remembering those habits. A slave must also be flexible, always prepared for the unexpected and willing to change his or her behavior to match the owner's needs. Does the owner wish the slave to attend the owner's bathing? _______Yes ________No If Yes then... 1. Does the owner wish the slave to bathe him or her? _____Yes ______No explain... _____________________________________________________ 2. How does the owner prefer to bathe? ______Shower ______ Bath _______Both explain... _________________________________________________________________ 3. On what days does the owner normally bathe? ______Mon ______Tue _______Wend ______Thurs ______Fri _______Sat _______Sun explain... _________________________________________________________________ 4. When does the owner prefer to bathe? ______Morning ______Evening _____Before work _______After work explain... _________________________________________________________________ 5. Does the owner prefer ______bar soap ______ liquid bath gel ______ medicated soap ______ bubble bath ______scented soap? explain... _________________________________________________________________ 6. What is the owner's favorite soap? _________________________________ explain... _________________________________________________________________ 7. What is the owner's favorite scent for soap or bath gel? 8. Does the owner use __________wash cloth ________bath sponge ________loofa sponge ______ bath puff _________other? explain... _________________________________________________________________ 9. How long does the owner normally spend in a bath? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________ 10. How long does the owner normally spend in a shower? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________
11. Does the owner normally wash his or her hair when they bathe? explain... _________________________________________________________________
12. How often does the owner normally wash his or her hair? explain... _________________________________________________________________
13. On what days does the owner normally wash his or her hair? explain... _________________________________________________________________ 14. What shampoo does the owner normally use? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________
15. How many times does the owner normally shampoo his or her hair? explain... _________________________________________________________________
16. Does the owner normally wash his or her hair before washing his or her body or after? explain... _________________________________________________________________ 17. Does the owner normally use conditioner, if so what kind? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________
18. Does the owner use any special products for his or her hair, such as medicated shampoo, hot oil treatment, or anti frizz treatment? If yes what and how often. _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________ 19. Does the owner normally shave while bathing? _________Yes _________No explain... _________________________________________________________________ 20. What type of razor does the owner use? _________Disposable _________Replaceable _________Electric ___________Strait razor explain... _________________________________________________________________
21. What type of shaving cream does the owner normally use? (Male) 22. Does the owner normally shave his ________ face _______ arms _______chest _______legs _______back _______butt _______groin ? explain... _________________________________________________________________ (Female) 22. Does the owner normally shave her ______face ______arms _______legs _______groin ______underarms __________bikini line? explain... _________________________________________________________________
23. Does the owner normally use other forms of hair removal? explain... _________________________________________________________________
24. How often does the owner shave? explain... _________________________________________________________________ If No then... 25. Does the owner wish his or her clothing laid out after they bathe? _________Yes _______ No explain... _________________________________________________________________ 26. Does the owner wish a warm towel prepared for him or her for after the bath? ______Yes ______No explain... _________________________________________________________________ 27. Does the owner wish you to be available and near by, just in case you are needed? _______Yes _________No explain... _________________________________________________________________
MISC... explain... _________________________________________________________________ 29. Does the owner wish the slave to rub lotion on the owner after the he or she has finished their bath? ________Yes _________No explain... _________________________________________________________________ 30. If yes, what is the owner's preferred lotion? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________ 31. Does the owner wish a warm oil rub down after he or she has bathed? _____Yes _______No explain... _________________________________________________________________ 32. If yes, what is the owner's preferred oil? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________
33. Does the owner normally put on antiperspirant or deodorant after he or she bathes? explain... _________________________________________________________________ 34. What is the owners preferred antiperspirant/deodorant? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________ 35. Does the owner prefer ________Gel ________Solid ________Roll On _______Spray ________Paste ________Powder ? explain... _________________________________________________________________
37. Does the owner normally use power after he or she bathes? explain... _________________________________________________________________ 38. If yes what type does the owner prefer? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________ 39. Does the owner normally use cologne or perfume after he or she bathes? ________Yes ________No explain... _________________________________________________________________ 40. If yes what scent does the owner prefer? _________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________
41. Does the owner use any after bath treatment on his or her hair? explain... _________________________________________________________________ 42. If yes what type of treatment is used and how often? _____________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________
43. Does the owner wish the slave to give the owner a manicure? explain: _________________________________________________________________ 45. If yes, how often and describe any specific preferences the owner has. _____________________________________________________________________ 46. Does the owner wish the slave to give the owner a pedicure? ________Yes ______No explain: _________________________________________________________________ 47. If yes, how often and describe any specific preferences the owner has. _____________________________________________________________________ 48. Does the owner wish the slave to comb, brush or style his or her hair? ________Yes ________No explain: _________________________________________________________________ 49. If yes describe any specific preference the owner has. _____________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________ 50. Does the owner use gel, hair spray, moose or other styling assistance? _______Yes _______No explain... _________________________________________________________________ 51. If Yes, what type, and how often? _____________________________________________________________________ explain: _________________________________________________________________ 52. Does the owner have any piercings that may need special attention? ________Yes _______No. If yes explain... _____________________________________________________________________ 53. Does the owner have any tattoos/ brands etc. that require special attention? ______Yes ________No. If yes explain... _____________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________ 54. Does the owner have any medical condition that may require special attention or treatment before, during or after the bath? (for example: swimmers ear, bad back) explain... _____________________________________________________________________
Female only: 56. If yes, what time of the month and for how many days? _____________________________________________________________________ 57. Does the owner use ______tampons ______ pads _______ both _______ other explain... _____________________________________________________________________ 58. What is the owner's preferred female product? _____________________________________________________________________ explain... _________________________________________________________________
Eyebrows... explain... _________________________________________________________________ 60. Does the owner wish the slave to attend to the owner's eyebrows? ____Yes ____No explain... _________________________________________________________________
Teeth... explain... _________________________________________________________________ 62. What type of toothpaste does the owner prefer? _________paste ______gel _______liquid ______ other. explain... _________________________________________________________________ 63. What type of toothbrush does the owner prefer? ______ soft bristle ________medium bristle _______hard bristle ________electric toothbrush _______water pick ________other explain... _________________________________________________________________ 64. If the owner has false teeth or a partial does the owner use a dental adhesive? ______Yes ________No explain... _________________________________________________________________ 65. If yes, what is the owner's preferred type and brand? _________________________________________________________________ explain... _________________________________________________________________
Mouthwash... explain... _________________________________________________________________ 67. If yes, what is the owners preferred flavor and brand? _________________________________________________________________ explain... _________________________________________________________________
Contacts.... explain... _________________________________________________________________ 69. If yes, are they ______ extended wear ______daily wear _________disposable. explain... _________________________________________________________________ 70. What type of cleaning fluid for the contacts does the owner prefer? explain... _________________________________________________________________ Additional Notes: _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________ As you can see there is quite a bit of information that a slave should know about the grooming and bathing habits of his or her owner in order to serve them well. It is the details that make the difference between a good slave and a great slave. |