Foot, Boot & High Heel Worship

by English Boot Boy

Debasing the male slave is the easiest thing for a Dominatrix to do, for she has so many avenues open to her that she can always find some way to bring the male to heel. One of the most frequently encountered methods of humbling the male is to force him to worship your feet and boots.

Of course, 'force' may be too strong a word, for when one has found a man who is in need of domination, and you have arranged a session with him and are clad in your leather outfit, you will not find it necessary to force him to do anything. Most slaves will be eager to please you, too eager, in fact, really to do anything correctly. As a result, you will have many opportunities to inflict punishment upon him... and there is no better way to begin than to offer him your foot or boot to worship.

Force him to remove your shoe or boot , cautioning him to treat it with care. If he is clumsy, promise him the whip later. Make him lick your foot, either through the stockings you wear, or bare. Make him suck your toes, and insist while he is doing so that he masturbate himself, though not to the point of ejaculation. If he is unfortunate enough to have so little control over himself as to ejaculate before you are ready for him to (assuming, indeed, that you intend to allow him any genital pleasure at all), dismiss him at once. He will protest, of course, that it is not his fault, that he could not help himself, but do not relent. Allow him barely enough time to dress and depart, all the while berating him for his failure.

Do not think this will cause him to stay away. Quite the contrary. He will return, contrite and ready to do your bidding. You can prolong his .punishment as long as you wish, by merely refusing to allow him to visit you. When you do finally decide to allow him to return, you can rest assured that he will be the most obedient slave you could wish. Return once again to the foot worship, cautioning him not to allow himself to ejaculate before you tell him he may. Once more force him to lick and kiss your foot, suck your toes, even clean between them with his tongue. He should be stripped naked, so you can 'touch him up` with your whip from time to time, for real or imagined transgressions. For example, if you tell him to lick your foot, and he licks up as high as your ankle, he can be whipped, since you did not tell him to lick your ankle. If he licks your foot according to instructions, but is not licking fast enough, whip him for that. If he licks quickly, whip him for licking too fast. In other words, keep him constantly off balance, never knowing what it takes to please you. In that way, his apprehension will make him a better slave.

The important thing to impress on the slave in foot worship is that it is a degrading, humiliating thing for him to do. Deride him as he is doing his best to please you. Torment him with the thought of the picture he presents, a grown man groveling on his knees, licking and sucking your foot... never known as the cleanest part of the human body. Tell him he is doing a fantastic job, then beat him with your whip as though he has failed miserably. He will beg to know why you are treating him so,-but do not deign to tell him. Simply let him believe it is a part of his punishment, and instruct him to continue licking your foot.

You will find that some men become so aroused by foot worship that they need nothing else in order to achieve the pinnacle of their own gratification. You must take steps to control this kind of behavior, for if you mistakenly permit a confirmed foot fetishist to achieve satisfaction while worshiping your foot, you will have failed to control him properly. His satisfaction must come only when you permit, and at no other time. Because of that, I caution you to know your slave well. Make sure you are not playing into his hands by giving him the kind of torment he craves the most, and which can give him the ultimate satisfaction. You must make your slave feel humiliated as he kneels before you, licking and kissing your foot. For this reason, you might depart from the rule of the most meticulous cleanliness when you are going to force a slave to worship your feet, and offer him an unwashed foot for his oral adoration. He will of course, feel great repugnance at being ordered to perform so demeaning a task, but when you have successfully forced him to do so, your mastery of him is secure.

However, securing mastery over a slave is only the first step to making him devoted to you for life. If you find him developing a taste for foot worship, where he actually enjoys it, turn to something else, something that will restore to him the feeling of humiliation which you instilled in him at the beginning. Do not let him become too enamored of your feet, for it you do, he will become less desirable as a slave, making it more difficult for you to handle him properly. You do not need to understand the dynamics of foot worship in order to utilize it properly, but the more you understand about the needs many men have for humiliation, the more adept you will become at this most ancient and treasured art. The groveling male is there, licking your foot, begging, quite literally, for forgiveness. He needs your approval, as a prop for his fragile ego, and yet you must never give it to him, except in the most grudging terms. He must be made to feel he has earned your approval, for deep within him, the man feels terribly inferior, and his guilt relating to his sexuality is profound. It is, therefore, your task to make sure he earns your forgiveness or anything else he attains from you. If you choose to participate in genital sex with him, make sure he has done a thorough job of licking your feet absolutely clean. Promise him a reward if he is thorough, but do not tell him what that reward is. In order to be certain he is not able to anticipate your reward, sometimes whip him when he has finished, sometimes allow him the sex he craves so desperately. But never, never, let him know what his reward is to be. Keep him off balance, and you will remain in command at all times.

Closely related to the worship of the foot, yet differing from it in some significant ways, is the worship of the high heel. This is one of the most frequently encountered fetishes a dominatrix will discover in her slaves, and she must know the best ways to cope with them. The high heel on a boot or shoe has an extreme level of erotic significance for most men, and because of that, they tend to regard it with veneration many women cannot understand.

However, once a woman understands that the heel on their boot or shoe is a penis-symbol, then the fascination of the male with it becomes more comprehensible. Because the male is a sex-worshipping creature when not properly controlled, anything that represents a sex organ to him becomes venerated. He is not as practical as a woman is concerning matters sexual, and his sexuality can always be used against him. A man will do anything a beautiful woman wants him to, if the promise of genital satisfaction is there. It doesn't matter how remote that satisfaction is, if the man understands that his ultimate reward is the sex he desires, he'll be sure to obey her every wish. Somehow, with their vaunted intelligence, men have never yet been able to grasp this fundamental fact.

For that reason, every dominatrix, in history has spent a great deal of attention on her heels. For the dominatrix, heels have not the necessity they do for the rider who spends a hard day in the saddle. For her they are part and parcel of her way of life, a symbol of her mastery over the men she permits to come close to her. First of all, the heel lifts her to such heights that she may look down upon the male, even if he is above average in height. That is a psychological advantage for her, putting as it does the male at her mercy.

One of the reasons women have lived in subservience to the male throughout the centuries is the fact that physically we are shorter than they, for the most part. Our size, coupled with our lesser physical strength, has placed us in positions many of us find intolerable... but the need men feel for domination has provided us with the weapons we can use to subjugate them to our will. We begin with the heel, and then introduce them to various of the other techniques (most of which will be spelled out here) that we dominant women use to keep our men in their proper places.

Proper use of the heel is imperative, and it is not as simple as thrusting your foot forward and demanding that the slave lick or kiss it. First of all, you must maintain an air of grace about everything you do. Therefore, when offering your heel for your slave to adore, you must put yourself in a position where balance will be easy, if you find yourself standing on one foot. Remember that supporting your weight on one foot while wearing high heels is a difficult task at best, so put yourself in a position where you can easily balance yourself, no matter how enthusiastic your slave becomes.

Now, there are two commands you can give your slave as to the manner he is to worship your high heels. You can have him lick the heel, usually in conjunction with the licking of the entire shoe, as explained in the previous section. Caution him that he must remove every speck of dust, and when he has completed his task, pretend to find some flaw in what he's done, and make him do the entire job over again. If he protests that he's done the best he can, flog him. Impress upon him that he's never to question your orders, no matter what they are.

Then, if he ever questions an order again, or protests in any way, send him away immediately. You will find that denying a slave the pleasure of your presence is the greatest punishment you can give him. After being sent away once or twice, he will forever obey your slightest whim. You can take my word for it.

The other technique for shoe or boot heel adoration that provides the man with a high level of erotic excitement is to force him to suck on the heel. You will find, when the slave has the heel sucked deeply into his mouth, that his penis will show every sign of erotic excitement. Do not attempt to order him to lower his boom, as it were, for it will be impossible for him to lose his erection as long as he is sucking the heel of your shoe. You must realize that for the slave this is an act highly charged with eroticism, and you cannot control the forces flowing through his body at that moment.

Your control over him comes from the fact that you control the shoe or boot heel he loves. If he does not obey you, or if he presumes to touch your body without permission, you can deny him the heel. Usually, that will bring him to a level of contrition sufficiently low for you to be able to re-assert your mastery over him with merely a word. If not, be prepared to use the whip on him unmercifully, for like a wild animal that has been partially trained, if he tastes the merest bit of freedom, all your previous work will have gone for naught.