Dr. Bondage's
Negotiation Form
Here's a useful form for learning what play partners are into (for actual play, for fantasy enactment, or just discussion).
The list is not necessarily "complete," nor indicative of scenes that can be done for real!
There are many good negotiation forms on the Web. This list contains a more detailed bondage section than most.
Both players should complete the checklist.
PREFERENCES & LIMITS
For Bondage-Focused Scenes or Sessions
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NAME:
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NICKNAME or AKA:
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Phone #, Email Address, and/or Website: |
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Any health problems?
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On any relevant medication?
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Allergic to cats?
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Allergic to dogs?
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Any other relevant allergies?
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Any tattoos? Where?
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Any piercings? Where?
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Preferred Beverage(s)
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Preferred Snack(s)
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BONDAGE
Cross out unacceptable level(s) and/or circle preferred level:
1. Tight/Snug
2. Uncomfortable
3. Painful/Extreme
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DISCIPLINE DISCOMFORT
Cross out unacceptable level(s) and /or circle preferred level:
1. Light
2. Medium
3. Intense
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CROSS OUT UNACCEPTABLE ACTIVITIES AND/OR CIRCLE FAVORITE ACTIVITIES:
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ATTIRE
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topless
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naked
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dress
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barefoot
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shoes
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boots
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body jewelry
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special/favorite colors?
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LINGERIE
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panties
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pantyhose
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stockings
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half slip
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full slip
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nightgown |
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babydoll
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FETISH
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collar
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chastity belt
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corset
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leather
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latex
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spandex
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COSTUMES, UNIFORMS
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French maid
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Nurse
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Military uniform
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Harem costume
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Nun
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Secretary
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Boss
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Cheerleader
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School
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Cowgirl/Cowboy
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Superhero(ine)
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Supervillain(ess)
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Hippie
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Waitress
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Bride
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swimsuit/bikini
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On dominant
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leather gloves
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rubber gloves
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BONDAGE POSITIONS
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RECLINING
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Classic Spread Eagle
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Turned Spread Eagle
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Eiffel
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Jackknife
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Strappado
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One leg up
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Two legs up
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Frog
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Cross ankle
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Diagonal
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STANDING
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Spread Eagle
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Eiffel
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Jackknife
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Strappado
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One leg up
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Frog
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Cross ankle
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CHAIR/SEATED:
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Classic
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Cross Ankle
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Legs apart
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Feet apart
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Feet up
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Backward on chair
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Sideways on chair
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Strappado
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BENT OVER
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BALL TIE
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FOLD TIE:
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classic fold
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lotus fold
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CLASSIC/DETECTIVE/BASIC:
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wrist
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ankle
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chest
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knee
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HOGTIE:
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classic
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cross-ankle
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FROG TIE
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SUSPENSION:
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in swing
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by wrists
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by ankles
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inverted (upside-down)
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by thighs
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frog
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spread-eagle
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eiffel
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KNEELING
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HAND POSITION:
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in front
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behind
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above
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sides
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ANKLE POSITION:
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parallel
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crossed
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lotus
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apart
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ORIENTAL/JAPANESE:
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torso-web
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leg-web
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MUMMIFICATION:
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plastic wrap (kitchen wrap)
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duct tape
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sheet
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cloth
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rug
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immobilization
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sensory deprivation
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SPECIALTIES:
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elbows together
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crotchrope/genital bondage
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breast bondage
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hair bondage
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GAGS, BLINDFOLDS, HOODS
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GAGS:
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cloth gag
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tape gag
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stuffing (cloth, sponge) in mouth
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ball-gag (behind the teeth)
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harness gag
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ring-gag, bit-gag, penis-gag
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sponge
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fruit
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soap in mouth
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gag-kissing
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BLINDFOLD:
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sleep mask
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cloth
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leather
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HOOD:
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spandex
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leather
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cloth
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BONDAGE MATERIALS
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ROPE:
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cotton
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nylon
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hemp
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hemp
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unmanilla
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cord
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cord
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yarn
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mountaineering rope
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parachute cord
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TAPE:
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duct tape
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PVC/electrical tape
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scotch tape
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masking tape
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LEATHER:
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straps
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cuffs
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single-glove
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harness
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METAL:
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handcuffs
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chains
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locks
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spreader bar
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MEDICAL:
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stocks
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straitjacket
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humane restraints
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CLOTH:
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sheet strips
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cloth strips
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neckties
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scarves
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spandex strips
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stockings
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WOOD:
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stocks
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spreader bar
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PHYSICAL CONTACT, SEXUALITY
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BONDAGE:
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tied together
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tied face-to-face
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WRESTLING:
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struggling
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pinning
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holding down
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stripping
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FONDLING:
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hug
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affection
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caress
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face
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manhandling
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teasing
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fondling breasts
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intimate fondling
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KISSING:
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mouth (surface)
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French
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breasts
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thighs
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intimate
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PINCHING:
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breasts
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nipples
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rear
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thighs
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more
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| "BITING":
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neck
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shoulder
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rear
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thighs
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breasts
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TICKLING:
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feet
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tummy
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underarm
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neck
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knee
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VIBRATOR:
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surface only
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penetration vaginal
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anal
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to orgasm
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VAGINAL:
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masturbation
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finger
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cunnilingus
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intercourse
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dilation
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labia torture
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clit torture
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DILDOS, PLUGS:
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oral
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vaginal
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anal
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ben wa balls
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COCK & BALLS:
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worship
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licking
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fellatio
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swallowing
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torture
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"milking"
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ANAL:
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finger
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rimming
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intercourse
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enema
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felching
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roman shower
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brown shower
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scat play
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ROLES, PLOTS
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fantasy stalking
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following
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lurking
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fake chloroform
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fake "drugged drink"
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toy gun
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reading out loud
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verbal resistance
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physical resistance
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Burglar-Captive
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Kidnapper-Hostage
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Interrogator-Captive (Spy)
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Torturer-Victim
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Cop-Suspect
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Vampire-Victim
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Professor-Student
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Boss-Secretary
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Medical scene
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Doctor-Patient
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Doctor-Nurse
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Law Enforcement & Criminal (or innocent bystander mistaken as criminal)
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Master-Slave
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Sex Slave
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training
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training
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worship
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Slave Auction
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Victorian-British discipline
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Master-Servant
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Master-Servant
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Master-Servant
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Master-Servant
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Maid
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Personal maid
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Soldier
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Amputee
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Witch trial
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Amazon Queen
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Priestess-Priest
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Nun-Priest
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fraternity-sorority initiation-prank (initiation is good for forced feminization scenes)
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religious ritual, pagan ritual, other ritual
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alien abduction - alien probes
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age play
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feminization
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cross dressing
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gender play
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turning the tables
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PSYCHOLOGICAL
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SUBMISSION:
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kneeling
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obedience
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following orders
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lectures
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housework
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servitude
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chauffeuring
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massage
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thigh worship
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DISPLAY:
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voyeurism
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exhibitionism
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dancing
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performing
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MIND GAMES:
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humiliation - what kind?
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exhibition
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embarrassment
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examination
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verbal embarrassment
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verbal embarrassment
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verbal abuse
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discipline
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mind control
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stripping clothes
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crying
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face slapping
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teasing
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sexual deprivation
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spitting
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elimination control
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toilet slave
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degradation
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intimidation
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phone sex
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FETISHES
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FEET:
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tickling
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spanking
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flogging
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licking
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shrimping (toe-sucking)
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crushing
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foot worship
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shoe worship
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boot worship
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TASTE:
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chocolate
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alcohol
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foods
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sweat
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genitals
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cum
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SOFT:
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feather dusters
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feathers
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soft implements
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fur
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HAIR:
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Slow pulling
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tugging
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head control
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SHARP:
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knives
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razors
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teasing
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tickling with blade
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shaving legs
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shaving crotch
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abrasion
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scratching
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cutting
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injections
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temporary piercing
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permanent piercing
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WET:
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ice
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liquid
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water
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food play
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lotion
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cool cream
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hot cream
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hot oil
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dunking
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sploshing
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golden shower
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SCENTS:
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sweat
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perfume
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foods
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latex
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leather
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feet
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incense
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alcohol
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cum
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urine
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DISCIPLINE, PERCUSSION
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SPANK:
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hand-spank
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rear
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feet
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muscles
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more
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over-the-knee
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bent over
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paddle
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tawse
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strap
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hairbrush
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switch
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cane
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slap breasts
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body-slapping
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RIDING CROP:
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breasts
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rear
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legs
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more
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FLOGGER:
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rear
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back
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breasts
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crotch
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stomach
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SINGLE-TAIL WHIP:
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teasing
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cutting
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CLAMPS:
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nipples
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breasts
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toes
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genitals
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with weights
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CLOTHESPINS:
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nipples
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breasts
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stomach
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genitals
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more
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HOT WAX:
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front
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back
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feet
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more
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MARKS:
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temporary
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permanent
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tattooing
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branding
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cigarettes
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ANYTHING ELSE?
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