Psychology of Rope Bondage

by Chicago BDSM

I have come up with when dealing with psychology involved with doing bondage…

3 Questions to ask about doing bondage...

• The first, What does bottom/top receive from it?
• Secondly, Why do they need/want that? and
• Third, Where does it take them?

Generally there are many different reasons for everyone to enjoy bondage, there is no right or wrong as long as all parties are happy and getting what they need from it and also what they want from it! But there are several reasons why people do enjoy bondage, from both points of view. Some of them include what is listed below, but I am sure there are more then what I could come up with…

Control:
Probably the most important key of bondage. For most giving up/receiving, or losing/taking control is the main reason for loving / needing bondage! All the rest generally have something to do with this in some degree or form, but do not have to be the only reason.

Meditation: being bound for some can put the bottoming into sub space, or into a meditative state.

Stress Release: Giving up control can relieve a lot of normal daily stress.

Restraint: For use with other play.

Artistic: It just plain looks kool. ==B)