Thoughts on BDSM Toys

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Toy Usage

WHIPS & FLAGELLATION
You should choose your whipping paraphernalia with care. Each item affects the skin differently. Flogging, which manifested as Whipping, Caning or Spanking, is one of my personal favorites. I thoroughly enjoy a good hard over the knee spanking. Of all flogging equipment this is the easiest to use. It is so basic. Almost everyone has endured a spanking at one time or another. It is an excellent way to break in the uninitiated, as there are no threatening tools to use.

WHIPPING
The Martinet - This was the only whip to be designed exclusively for the punishment of juveniles. It is of French design, and is for use on the bare bottoms. It closely resembles a cat'o'nine tails. Martinets are not true whips and are usually made of strips of leather (usually 6) and the tails and handle should be of equal length.

Rubber Whips - You should be careful using these as they can cut if used roughly. Proceed with care, they can produce cuts, and cuts equal blood = DANGER. Take care both in use and in cleaning after wards.

Horse-Whips - My favorites are the short riding crops. Tack stores are a good outlet, but choose the material carefully. The harder the material the more damage you will do. The bull whip is the ultimate flogging tool, but it does not take long to make mincemeat out of a bare back. When buying these items take care to avoid whips with knots at the end, or hard leather.

SOME HISTORY

Whipping - The lash has been used since before the Middle Ages. In the ancient days, whips and scourges were often used to flay the wrong - doer open, eventually resulting in sepsis, loss of blood, and death. Whips were later developed to punish a person severely. Not until 1948 was judicial flogging abolished in Britain. The English Vice (Ian Gibson, Gerald Duckworth & Co., London) is a wonderful book for those wanting more information.

Judicial flogging was used to castigate sex offenders, especially 'flashers'. Punishment was often with a cat o nine tails. The suggestion that flogging and especially birching might arouse sexual interests in either the punished or the executioner put flogging off of the punishment books for good.

Techniques - Have the submissive fully secured for a whipping scene. There are times when no bonds are necessary such as spanking scenes (mother/son) or caning scenes (teacher/pupil). Blows to the kidney may cause bruising or permanent injury and MUST BE AVOIDED. Joints are another area to avoid, this could cause ligament or joint problems. Despite warnings on this you may elect to produce sensations on the backs of knees, elbows etc.

Never hit the back of the neck, as such blows could cause spinal damage. The head is off limits also - we know as children that a light blow to the temples could cause immediate death, however face slapping is OK.

The scrotal sac is a popular place to strike. All men fear loss of their manhood, and strikes to this area produce psychological fear in addition to pain. Should you wish to bring pain to this area, use a ball stretcher, and weights. Never strike the penis hard or with a solid instrument. Instead use leather or another soft item for penis torture.

SPANKING

Spanking is something that can be done in public or private. A severe spanking is considered a childish correction, and therefore shaming. It is suitable for all age groups.

Usually the punishing device is the governesses open palm, and for this I like to administer brisk, spankings. The next spank arrives before my culprit has time to absorb it, and this helps to promote a rapid loss of self-control and so the weeping state that usually signals the end of the punishment.

After a few strokes you should be able to see the reddening of the skin, where your blows have been landing. I usually punish one buttock then the other, then two cheeks together, then a low blow, then a high blow, and finally a thigh. (However, I mix these up so that my culprit cannot anticipate it.)

The 5 recognized postures for spanking are:-

• across my knees,
• between my thighs,
• across a single elevated thigh, tucked under the arm,
• between the legs, or
• held down by the collar across an appropriate item of furniture.

If I'm putting the culprit across my lap, I take him by the ear or the hair and march him to the place where I intend to sit. I unbutton his rousers, and push him firmly so that he lies down across my lat. His bottom is positioned directly over my right thigh, and his arms are held forward out of the way, or I tell him to grip a hold of the chair.

If I'm putting him between my thighs, then I mount my foot on a chair seat, bid him to approach, and when he arrives I force him to bend forward across my thigh. I then wrap my right thigh around his legs to hold him. Normally to do this, I have to lift my gown to knee-level in order to accomplish this, and it adds sharply to the atmosphere.

When baring a submissive's bottom, I like to humiliate him by having him lower his trousers, to his knees, once there I re-fasten them, then I lift the shirt tail up and tuck it under the rear of his jacket, then very slowly, I get to his knickers. I slowly draw them down, and position them around mid-thigh.

One other thing about spanking is that this is the one mode of physical correction, that is the most intimate. More flesh is in contact, and it's very much associated with mother and child. And of course every mother loves their children.

Traditional items such as a leather or wooden slipper, are always more severe than with the hand. The impact of a well-handled slipper is impressive. A school ruler, or the flat wooden back of a hairbrush are all items that I use to punish naughty naked buttocks. Please note that hairbrushes are more apt to bruise more easily than any other item, and two dozen is the most I'd ever lay on with the back of a hairbrush.

Tawses and paddles are really much more suitable for the severer kinds of spanking and though it is usually done otherwise, they may also be administered in the classic posture. The Taws have a long and distinguished history, are made from various materials and are 'smacking' instruments. I've used the taws on hands, clothed bottoms, bared bottoms, and if after being smacked on the bared bottom and your culprit isn't in any distress, then you have been much to mild. A tapette or paddle as they are known in the United States, is one of the severest instruments used for smacking. A ping pong paddle works just as well also. The sound of the paddle's impact is the most tremendous 'whack', and it normally leaves no bruises when used correctly.

Although the cane and the birch were famous instruments for corporal punishment in English public schools, (I know better than most people, as I went to one, perhaps that is why I am now a Top), and reform schools the paddle is still a favorite. Other materials that are used, are leather paddles, sometimes with fur on one side, or studs, wooden paddles (fraternity) different shapes, and sizes.

Birching - The birch was used prior to the cane. It consisted of many switches all bundled together. A switch is a single tree branch cut to 3 foot lengths, and fairly thin. Usually twigs, leaves etc., are broken off, I usually peel the switch - this gives it more of a snap (I learned this from my Grandfather who used to like to lay the switch on my siblings).

The birch-rod is for serious offences only. It must be a very grave situation for me to take the trouble to administer a proper birching. It gives a combination smacking and lashing. After the punishment has been administered, and as soon as the culprit is able to speak, I order him to get off my knees and make the final act of contrition - Kissing the rod.

Caning - This is a sport. At my school caning was primarily given to the hands rather than on your ass. After a caning the student was forced to say "Thank you Sir, May I have another?" after each stroke. The cane can leave nasty marks that linger. In Canada and England players primarily focus on caning, and there are caning-like dungeon parties.

The cane is a highly penetrating item, and care must be taken when administering it - so much is obvious. The arm and wrist movement is a complex one, and the achievement of a good caning action is therefore a matter of some diligence and constant practice. Be careful as the cane can cut, and scar, and that is simple brutality.

For a hand-caning scene, I like to take the cane, and command the culprit to stand up and hold out his hand, fingers extended, arm and wrist stiff, at shoulder height. I then take my aim, and strike vertically downwards, with a sharp, swishing action, using the wrist and forearm rather than the shoulder muscles. I aim to strike the palm at a diagonal angle. Usually the culprit will pull his hand away immediately and stick it under his arm. Withdrawing it at the last minute is a serious offence, and immediately relates into the hand-caning being translated into another type of caning.

Another popular stance that I like, is to make the culprit grab his ankles or touch his toes.

After the chastisement the culprit is normally sent back to his table to complete his work, or made to stand in the corner for a few minutes.

PUNISHMENT BOOKS

In state, and church schools, (In England) the law requires that you keep a punishment book, these are printed and sold by educational booksellers, but I don't think that they have enough categories, and cannot begin to tell a tale about the whipping. Therefore I created my own.

My punishment book contains the following categories:

• The date of the punishment
• The offence
• The pupils name
• The implement(s) of punishment
• The condition(s) of the punishment - In public, private etc.,
• The number of strokes
• The dress
• The witness (if any)
• And the culprits signature

Whenever a 'boy' graduates, or passes out, he is given a list of all the punishment book entries which apply to himself, as a keepsake, and a reminder of the fate that befalls bad boys.

His parents or guardians are also furnished with a similar list, on a monthly basis, if they so require.

GAGS

Gags are used to render people speechless, which has a great psychological impact. Some bottoms prefer gags because they muffle their screams of ecstasy. Those who use gags have an alternate signal to replace the safe word.

We have many types of gags that we use, they include bridles, ball gags, muzzles, penis gags, electrical tape, panties, dildos, and bar gags.

Unless it renders the jaw inactive, gags such as electrical tape are typically ineffective.

Ball gags are effective and safe as long as they are anchored or strung onto a strap that is wide enough to be comfortable.

Penis or dildo gags are available with the penis mounted on the inside of the mouth, the outside, or both. Penis gags are used for humiliation, sex, punishment and teasing. We strap on the sub the gag with the dildo that protrudes outward and then we can mount it if desired. Head harnesses with a high heel shoe attached to the front so that the toe penetrates the mouth (or other areas) is a great one for us to wear.

Muzzles or head harnesses are used by many including us, because they are comfortable, generally anchor the jaw, and do a good job of muffling any sound. The sub can still speak, although not very well...

Harnesses

Body harnesses are used for decorative attire, suspension, and to anchor onto other restraints. Decorative harnesses are made of rope in bondage scenes and of leather for costumes. Harnesses used most for suspension are parachute harnesses which are available at most Army Navy Surplus stores - these are much better for the couple of who occasionally play, and are a lot cheaper than the leather ones that you can purchase at stores such as The Leather Rack etc., (And they are guaranteed to be safe!)

Mummification or Cocooning

About the most complete form of bondage is to wrap someone up so they are completely immobile. The most popular way to mummify someone is with plastic wrap. A common technique is to wrap each limb separately, then wrap the arms to the sides, and then wrap the legs together--and then help your submissive lie down on an adjacent soft surface. You can then cut holes (carefully!) to access any especially sensitive areas, or wrap duct tape over it all for extra security, or add gags, blindfolds, etc. One way the body releases heat is by sweating, and while mummified you can sweat too much, so make sure your sub doesn't overheat--and have a blanket ready to cover them with when you cut them out of their cocoon, using the bandage scissors (obtainable from medical supply stores--one flat blade makes cutting easier) which you of course have ready to hand. And as always, monitor your submissive very carefully; they are helpless, and your neglect or inattention could spell disaster.

Hoods

Many leather stores and artisans make bondage hoods. They are sometimes called discipline helmets also. These are typically constricted of leather or rubber. Some have simple zippers, and you zip them up to secure them. Others have laces on the back and/or the sides, to enable the hood to be laced more tightly, for greater bondage effect. Some hoods have eye holes, some don't. Some hoods have mouth holes, some don't. Some deluxe hoods have built-in earmuffs or even space for earphones, for sensory deprivation. Almost all hoods have nose holes, for obvious reasons. Hoods can restrict a bottom's breathing quite seriously, and tops must remain continually aware of their bottom's condition while their bottom is wearing a hood--especially if the hood is combined with any form of gag. Do not leave a hooded bottom alone; breathing difficulty can come on quickly. Some people believe that any hood without a zipper or other extra-quick-release mechanism is too dangerous to use on a bottom. In any case, you should have some bandage scissors at the ready if the hood needs to be removed in a big hurry.

A hood is a very powerful device. It strongly increases your sense of helplessness, confinement, and makes everything that much more intense. They are usually considered advanced pieces of equipment, with strong implications for psychology and technique.

Bodybags

If you like being bound, the ultimate extreme is bondage which encompasses your entire body, leaving you with no motion whatever. Bondage Body bags (or "sleep sacks") resemble a well-tailored, snug sleeping bag, often made out of leather or spandex. Spandex Body bags are the least expensive, and if made from heavy enough spandex can be very restrictive indeed. Often Body bags have an opening at the upper end, through which you slide your feet, pulling the bag up to your neck. Many have other openings for genitals or nipples, so your slave can be pleasured or tortured while immobile.

Leather Body bags can be arbitrarily complex (and expensive); some have built-in internal arm sleeves to further minimize motion, or suspension straps so the bag, bottom and all, can be lifted into the air. Some have laces around the outside so the bag can be cinched to a downright painful tightness. If you REALLY have money to burn, you can even get inflatable rubber Body bags--get in it and pump it up, and float away! Caveats about breathing and quick-release apply here as well.

Hobble skirts

Fetish clothing is often designed not just to look good and feel good, but to act almost as bondage in its own right. Hobble skirts are a perfect example: they are simply skirts which fit very snugly from waist down to ankles. Often the wearer can take steps of only a few inches while wearing the skirt (thus the term "hobble skirt"). When combined with a pair of high heels, these skirts can be almost totally immobilizing, even without any other bondage. Leather or rubber are (again) the typical materials, though some dedicated tailors make their own from velvet or satin or other sensuous materials.

Arm binders

Restraints, typically leather, that bind both arms behind the back. Some resemble large gloves that pull up over both arms and buckle around the shoulders. Others are straps that go down the middle of the back and have attached wrist cuffs. Leather restraints are usually expensive, and another disadvantage is that they are not as adjustable as rope or handcuffs. Most cuffs make you choose between one-half inch intervals, as with an ordinary belt. Things that I like to do with special slaves of mine, is get them their own cuffs custom made, with their initials engraved into them, or the leather dyed their favorite color. In general, there are lots of kinds of bondage gear, and you can even invent your own...

C&BT
Cock and Ball Torture/Teasing

Stands for Cock & Ball Torture or teasing as the case maybe. "Genitorture" stands for "genital torture". This is a subject that makes some men clutch their nuts and run in fear, and makes other men instantly erect and greedy for more. The male genitals are at once the most vulnerable and most sensitive part of the male body, so of course many Dommes, like myself, enjoy playing with them.

Cock rings are rings that go around your cock, typically around the base of it, behind the balls. The penis becomes erect when the blood vessels at its base constrict (because of arousal), trapping blood in the cock and causing it to swell. Cock rings can also prolong an erection in most men that use them. (They also constrict the urethra, which will make any orgasm more painful, or even cause ejaculate to back up into the bladder. However, this is not dangerous unless done repeatedly. Experiment to find out how much tightness is too much.)

Most are made of leather, with adjustable snaps, so you can tighten or loosen them to fit (as well as remove them easily). Some are made of rubber. Some are even made of metal, but metal ones can be hazardous; if you put a too-small one on your non-erect cock, your cock may become so erect that you can no longer remove it--and if it is too tight, it will prevent your cock from softening. This may involve a trip to the emergency room and the use of bolt cutters. No joke. However *most* professional Dommes will know what size will fit, by looking at a semi erect penis, and I myself actually prefer the metal ones! When using metal ones, please make sure that you have plenty of lubrication on the shaft of your cock, so that when it's coming off, it tends to slide off easier.

Some cock rings have multiple rings, for behind the balls, around the balls themselves, and around the base of the shaft. Some people (like me!) like using lots of cock rings, to stretch the balls out away from the body, or just to create different sensations of bondage.

Safety tips: The broadest guideline is to go slowly until you know how much you can take. If the pain from a particular activity starts to spread into other areas of the body, or if the pain lasts for a long time after the stimulation ends, you have probably gone beyond your limits. You won't reach this point generally if you take your time. As with any SM practice, if you find yourself in pain later, or if you notice any abnormalities in your cock or balls when flaccid or erect, see a doctor. Of course, avoid any practice that seriously wrenches or twists the genitals; there are many ligaments and blood vessels in there, damage to which may make it hard for you to get hard at other times... However, the cock and balls can handle light whipping or slapping, provided it is done with care and by someone who knows where to whip, and where not to...

Cock and ball bondage can also be done with leather strips, ribbons, velvet cords, etc. Be as ornamental as you please; tying up an erect cock can create a luscious work of art, and teasing it can be even more artistic.

Don't expect C&B bondage to keep a cock hard indefinitely; cocks will usually get soft if not stimulated, and bondage which will keep it hard may be dangerously tight. In any event, be sure you can remove your bondage quickly, as always.

Dominant Women tend to exert control over their male slaves. One common control exercised is the control of male sexuality. There are several ways this can be accomplished.

The first is to prohibit the slave any form of sexual expression including masturbation. Along with the prohibition comes a punishment for the crime of sexual expression. The crime should be known to the slave for greater certainty in the Mistress / slave relationship.

Another way to control male sexuality is by means of genital restraints. These are various in nature, but generally stop the male's ability to attain erections. Often there is built into the restraint a mechanism to produce pain if the male organ should attempt to erect. This mechanism may include pins or needles which push into the male's genitalia upon the slightest sign of erection.

The third option open to the Mistress is castration of the slave. The purpose here is to effectively eliminate the excess production of the male hormone, testosterone. Castration can be done by two methods. The first is chemical castration. This involves administering a chemical to the male which counter-effects the testosterone produced by the male's testes. The second is surgical castration. This involves the surgical removal of both testes. This procedure is subject to the laws of the country in which the operation is performed. Most countries have strict regulations on castration surgery. Most medical practitioners will only perform the surgery if the patient requires such for medical reasons. The most two common medical reasons are cancer of the testes and prostate cancer. Castration surgery involves the opening of the scrotal sac and excising of the two testes. Castration surgery is performed as part of a sex change operation in conjunction with other surgeries and female hormone treatment.

A word of caution to any males contemplating non medical castration surgery and to Dominant Females who contemplate castrating willing males. As mentioned earlier, you must be aware of the laws in your country regarding castration surgery in a non medical environment. Any surgery in a medical environment is strictly controlled in most countries. Also the term willing males must be strictly observed. The male must be a willing participant.

Most males and Dominant Females use genital torture to accomplish their goals. Genital torture involves the torture of male genitalia by usually the Dominant Female. Again this is done with the consent of the male involved. Genital torture involves the striking of the genitalia with a small cane or whip, electro shock to the genitals, opening of the scrotal sac and setting the genitals on fire. The variety of genital torture is usually up to the Mistress but this is usually accompanied by male consent. The laws regarding castration surgery in most countries do not generally prohibit Dominant Females from counseling males who have a castration fixation.

In Paris, France there exists an organization known as the " Theatre du Supplices ". Actually I have no information as to whether they still exist but have only heard of their prior existence ( about ten years ago ) by means of articles in magazines which tell of such. They apparently exist at an ever changing address and exist in total secrecy. In the "Theatre", male volunteers are ritually put to death by Dominant Females with other Dominant Females observing. The process generally includes castration of the male victim with other procedures involving feces. My knowledge of the "Theatre" is only by third party means so I personally have no other knowledge of their operations or whether they still exist. Apparently there is not lack of male volunteers nor Dominant Females who wish to observe this process.

Castration has been quite common in times past. There are several references to the term " eunuch " in The Holy Bible. Male volunteers were often made eunuchs to obtain a position of trust. Many positions such as harem keeper required such. Also peoples at war often castrated the captured soldiers. This implied a punishment for their military service to the opposing side and ensured that no further offspring would come from these soldiers. In various countries, prisoners were castrated as part of their sentence.

Neutering today generally involves pets or farm livestock. Responsible pet ownership usually implies the neutering of the pet. This is usually done by a veterinary doctor. The results are a more even tempered pet and no further offspring. On farms and ranches, farm livestock are castrated by the farm hands. Cattle and pigs when castrated have better meat for human consumption, are more even tempered and produce no offspring. Male animals which have not been castrated are kept for breeding purposes only. Generally animals such as the bull tend to be violent and dangerous while the castrated steer is a much more docile animal.

Castration in the News

In Edmonton Alberta a man at the Misericordia Hospital was found in the parking lot with his entire genitalia recently removed. At first the police were looking for who did this deed. They then discovered that the man had recently committed a sex crime against a Woman and in a mood of repentance, did a self mutilation with a knife.

In a small rural area a youth was riding his motorbike across his father's field. The seat of the motorbike had been removed. While he was thus riding his balls fell into one on the holes under where the seat would have been on the motorbike. He was thrown off the motorbike but his balls remained behind. One man who discovered that another man had been sleeping with his wife castrated the other man and fed the freshly sliced testes and scrotum to his dog. ( To a dog, it's just fresh meat )

Castration in the Movies

Ilsa - She Wolf of the S.S. - a young man wakes up in the bed of Ilsa, a heavy chested Germanic blonde after what would be believed to be a night of sex. He believed that he had found Her favor and would be spared the harsh treatment of other prisoners in the camp. He was surprised when two of Her Assistants dragged him from the room. He was taken to and fastened on a crude operating table. Ilsa joins Her Two Assistants . One of the Assistants proceeds to castrate the screaming man with a semi circle shaped blade. The Assistants were then dismissed from the room. Ilsa takes up the blade and explains to the man " there is a doctor in Berlin who examines the penis' of inferior men. Yours will be sent to him." She then proceeds to amputate his penis to his continued screams.

The Ladies Club - group of Women notice that males who have committed sex crimes against Women tend to go unpunished by the courts or receive extremely light sentences. They decide to form a vigilante group and take matters into their own hands. Where they discover that the courts have been extremely lenient with such men, Women in the group capture the man and take him to a Female Doctor in the group for castration. All proceeds well for a while. One day the Doctor is castrating a patient when she realizes that it was he who had perpetrated sexual violence on Her in the past. In a fit of rage, She kills the man by slicing his throat. She is charged with the murder and goes to jail. At the end of the movie, the remaining members of the group got together to have a discussion. One noted that they had found another Female Doctor sympathetic to the cause who would continue to perform the operations.

For Females Only

A great deal can also be done with female genitalia. Some women love having clothespins on their pussy lips; some love light whipping on their outer labia, or even their clitoris. Sometimes body piercings can be used for bondage; labia piercings can hold a pussy open very delightfully, or clit hood piercings can be tied up out of the way with thread, leaving the clit naked and exposed. Some women like soft fur on their pussy; others like to be alternately soothed and tormented until they can stand no more.

Again, go slowly. DO NOT blow into the vagina, whatever else you do. Don't leave clamps on very long until you know how much your partner enjoys (and how it will feel to her the next day when the scene is over). Too much of one kind of sensation can become irritating quickly; change the stimulation, keep your bottom aroused and surprised. There are all sorts of things that can be used on female genitals; bamboo skewers, candles, cheese graters, clips, fly swatter, ice cubes, knives, latex squares, leather thongs, massage bongers, rabbit fur, ropes, scalp scrubber, silk, spoons, towels, weights, and whips are items that can be useful in giving your bottom's genitals a ride they won't forget. (And no, you don't do this until you cause real damage, any more than you do with male genitals. Don't be scraping, scabbing, or scarring--these are the most sensitive parts of the body you're playing with!)

Communication is paramount in female genital play; women's pussies vary as much as any other part of women's' bodies (or more), and responses will vary equally dramatically. In general, the same sort of rhythm discussed in the whipping section is useful in cunt play, though if anything the top needs to go even more slowly, as the sensations will be more intense and focused than in almost any other kind of sensation scene.

One final tidbit: apparently, for many women, myself included, a common pre-orgasmic response is for the clit to retreat into its hood. If you are giving your partner some very delicious sensation (possibly combined with some just-right pain) and her clit disappears, DON'T STOP! (Unless you want to avoid her orgasm... don't push this too far, unless your bottom's feet are tied down--she may kick.) And know your limits; if your bottom really wants an orgasm to end the scene, giving her one may make her EXTREMELY grateful to you, and waiting too long may burn you both out. This is good stuff to negotiate about beforehand in any scene--how would you like the scene to end? Breaking such an agreement will engender mistrust, but honesty, as always, will help everyone get what they want.

Just As They Sound

Cutting or scarification as it is sometimes know is having someone cut you, carefully and lovingly, in the context of a scene. This is a highly specialized art and should only be done with someone you absolutely trust! The results from this can sometimes look like tattoos, particularly if dye is rubbed into the cut.

Burning is playing with fire, or alcohol. Branding is... well... branding! They're all very intense SM trips that can be an incredible amount of fun if you enjoy them, just like all SM. They are, of course, extremely severe and possibly dangerous, but they're not the kind of things novices tend to get right into. They are also part of a larger practice generally known as "Body Modification."

Hot And Cold Play

Holding a burning candle over someone so the hot wax drips on them is a classic S/M technique, it's fairly popular and most people play with it somewhat. However it does leave a messy residue of wax all over the place, so make sure your sissy maid will be around to clean up after your session!

Molten wax can be mild or intense. The higher you hold the candle, the cooler the drops will be--to a certain extent. They'll definitely make your bottom yelp no matter what! Certain colors and beeswax candles, melt at a much higher temperature. They have been made with large amounts of plastic and will burn.

The chest, breasts, nipples, and abdomens are excellent wax places. Be careful around the genitals, and remember that wax is hard to remove from pubic hair... If you like hot wax, you might like ice cubes too...

Trailing Ice after a drop of candle wax is very intense... Some people pop them in their mouth and then perform oral sex... some people even insert them in the subs vagina or anus... Be careful though, you don't want to cause frostbite!!!

Menthol creams such as chest rubs and arthritis creams work really well when used for male masturbation, as it makes this much more intense. There are not intended for internal usage, so do not slide any inside a vagina or up an ass... nor have intercourse with someone after rubbing it on your cock...

Cages

Cages are used to imprison partners without the need of additional restraints.

Cages are made to resemble wire chicken coops, coffins, or wooden boxes. The type of cage one selects depends on the type of scene one wants to enact.

If it is an interrogation fantasy, bars are often used.

If the slave is a pet, then generally a dog cage, or kennel is used. Necrophiles, and vampires generally prefer coffins.

Wooden boxes with ventilation holes are versatile in most cases. Cages are used as beds, punishment time, recess during play, and people who practice long term bondage, and who need to leave the house for a couple of hours generally consider a cage safe enough to leave their partner in...

Cages may or may not be large enough to permit the slave to stand or lay fully stretched out. The size of the cage should be determined on how long the person is going to be left inside.

Chains

Chains are used for suspension or attaching one restraint to the other. They can be used to adorn the body, or to connect various ring piercings on the body. Chains because they rattle and feel cold, add tactile and auditory sensations to the bondage scene.

Chains are preferred by some for suspension because they are heavy duty and various items can be hung from the links. A 3" or 4" panic snap is added to provide for immediate release.