Making The Grade (1)

Evaluation of Your submissive

By Norische

This is a list set up to aide in the communication of abilities and performance, and to clarify the expectations of the Dominant for the submissive.

Instructions:

Periodically, I suggest twice a year, go through and answer the questions below honestly and with as much deliberation as possible. Remember to consider the individuals performance on a whole, and not focus on one or two days out of the time allotted. In the comments section, please be as thorough as possible, remember if you want an individual to change his or her behavior you must first show them that you are dissatisfied, then you must inform him or her of the behavior expected, and finally inform the individual of how they can meet your expectations. Remember the more information you give the easier it is for the submissive to meet your expectations and to grow.

As you choose each topic, pick the appropriate "grade" you feel the submissive deserves. Please utilize the additional space to make comments or suggestions for the submissive. There are three open areas at the end of this list, utilize this section to put your own specific topic in it, something that is important to you as an individual, such as humor, spirituality, sexuality, voice tone, alertness, or detail oriented... each time you fill out this form these topics may change, use this space to expand and explore the possibilities.

Service

N/A

Example: Does the sub strive to provide excellent service?

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Obedience

N/A

Example: Is the sub obedient?

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Aptitude

N/A

Example: Does the sub have the ability to carry out his or her tasks?

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Communication

N/A

Example: Does the sub communicate well, and ask questions when necessary?

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Honesty

N/A

Example: Is the sub honest and truthful?

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Openness

N/A

Example: Is the sub open, willing to answer questions thoroughly and without reservation?

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Discretion

N/A

Example: Is the sub discrete, primarily in public? This would also include speaking to others about his or her relationship with the Dominant and anything that pertains to the Dominant. This does not include discussions or conversations that have been authorized by the Dominant.

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Respect

N/A

Example: Does the sub show respect as appropriate?

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Emotional Stability

N/A

Example: Is the sub emotionally stabile. If not is he or she seeking the appropriate treatment and/or medication?

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Attitude

N/A

Example: Does the sub have the appropriate attitude to provide the Dominant the desired environment?

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Self Esteem

N/A

Example: Does the sub exhibit pride and self worth?

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Focus

N/A

Example: Can the sub remain focused and finish a directed task?

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Eagerness

N/A

Example: Is the sub eager to please and eager to perform?

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Initiative

N/A

Example: Does the sub use initiative, and have the ability to self manage?

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Ingenuity

N/A

Example: Is the sub resourceful and will accomplish a task even if the situation is not perfect?

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Organization

N/A

Example: Is the sub well organized and has the ability to organize his or her surroundings in a logical manner?

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Task Management

N/A

Example: Does the sub have the ability to manage a task and prioritize as necessary?

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Multitasking

N/A

Example: Can the sub perform multiple tasks at once effectively?

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Decisiveness

N/A

Example: Does the slave have the ability to make decisions when applicable, without questioning his or her own judgment?

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Independence

N/A

Example: Is the sub able to be left alone without supervision and not become distracted or distraught?

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Promptness

N/A

Example: Does the slave complete tasks in a timely manner, and is the slave prompt to answer the Dominant's call?

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Patience

N/A

Example: Does the sub exhibit patience, this would include with him or herself, with others, and with tasks, as well as with the Dominant?

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Manners

N/A

Example: Does the sub exhibit manners appropriate to the circumstances, both public and private?

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Etiquette

N/A

Example: Does the sub understand proper etiquette and utilize it when instructed?

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Appearance

N/A

Example: Does the sub maintain an appropriate appearance both public and private, this would include cleanliness as well.

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Health/Fitness

N/A

Example: Does the sub maintain his or her health, this would include taking medication as directed, and seeking professional help when appropriate?

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N/A

Example:

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N/A

Example:

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N/A

Example:

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N/A

Example:

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Things that you would like to see improved...

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Goal...

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Improvements and Acknowledgements

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Signature: (by signing this you verify that you have read and understood all of the above information.)

Dominant
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Submissive
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The above is a listing of basic abilities and capabilities, each individual is different and the requirements of each Dominant is different. This list is not designed to judge anyone it is designed to assist in communication and encourage growth both personally and within a relationship.

As with everything this is my opinion, take what you will and leave the rest. If you wish to contact me, my email address is Norisch1@mchsi.com. If you wish to see more of my work you may find a complete listing of all my writings at... http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Norisches_Quill/?yguid=99788111 in the files section.