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SOVEREIGN HOUSE BDSM CHECKLIST

The more information a Top knows about their bottom, the safer and more exciting their playtime can be. Remember... communication is the key to all relationships, BDSM and vanilla alike!

Below is a list of BDSM activities... please put 2 answers next to each item. Don’t be overwhelmed by this list. Take your time and answer as honestly and as best you can. Your answers will change over and over as you gain more experience in the scene. You should fill out this form every so often to let your Top know about new things you are interested/not interested in!

The first answer should be, if you’ve ever tried that activity before

Yes = I have participated in this activity before
No = I have not participated in this activity before

The second answer should be your interest in engaging in that activity on a scale of 0 – 5, NO,?, +, ! or a combination.

0 = I have no interest/don’t like this, but would do it to please you.
1 = Not very interesting/don’t really enjoy this too much.
2 = This is OK,
3 = This is nice/fun/interesting
4 = I really enjoy/think I’ll enjoy this activity
5 = I LOVE THIS/CAN’T WAIT TO TRY THIS
NO = Hard limit. I will not participate in this activity at all, at this time.
? = Unfamiliar with this activity.
+ = I’m scared of this but would possibly like to explore it.
! = I’m embarrassed to admit I like this.

Examples:

Flogging: Yes/5 Have done it before/LOVE IT!)

Cutting: No/+ (Have never tried/scared of this but might like to try it)

Golden Shower: No/5! (Have never done it/really exciting/embarrassed to admit it)

Fluffernutting: No/? (Have never done it/what the heck is it????)

Tickling: Yes/5+! (Have done this before/love it/scared of it/embarrassed I like it)

Also please feel free to write any explanations or more information after your answers.

Examples:

Flogging: Yes/5 - I especially love to be flogged on my back!!!

Tickling: Yes/5+! - My feet are my most ticklish place but I didn’t tell you that! <s>

Abrasion:	___________________________
Age Play:	___________________________
Anal Sex:	___________________________
Arm/Leg Sleeves:	___________________________
Asphyxiation:	___________________________
Beating hard:	___________________________
Beating soft:	___________________________
Begging/Pleading:	___________________________
Being Blindfolded:	___________________________
Being Gagged:	___________________________
Bestiality:	___________________________
Biting:	___________________________
Bondage (heavy):	___________________________
Bondage (light):	___________________________
Boot Worship:	___________________________
Branding:	___________________________
Breast bondage:	___________________________
Breast Whipping:	___________________________
Brown Showers/Scat (feces play):	___________________________
Caning:	___________________________
Catheterization:	___________________________
Chauffeuring:	___________________________
Choking:	___________________________
Chosen Clothing for:	___________________________
Chosen Food For:	___________________________
Clothespins:	___________________________
Cock Worship:	___________________________
Collars (wearing):	___________________________
Corsets (wearing):	___________________________
Cutting:	___________________________
Daddy Play:	___________________________
Dilation:	___________________________
Double Penetration:	___________________________
Electricity:	___________________________
Enemas:	___________________________
Examinations (physical):	___________________________
Exhibitionism:	___________________________
Face Slapping:	___________________________
Fantasy Gang Rape:	___________________________
Fantasy Rape:	___________________________
Fisting:	___________________________
Flogging (back):	___________________________
Flogging (butt)	___________________________
Following Orders:	___________________________
Foot Worship:	___________________________
Forced Dressing:	___________________________
Forced Homosexuality:	___________________________
Forced Masturbation:	___________________________
Forced Nudity:	___________________________
Forced Servitude:	___________________________
Full Head Hoods:	___________________________
Genital Sex:	___________________________
Given Away:	___________________________
Golden Showers (piss play):	___________________________
Hair Pulling:	___________________________
Hairbrushes:	___________________________
Hand Jobs:	___________________________
Handcuffs (metal):	___________________________
Harnessing:	___________________________
Head (getting):	___________________________
Head (giving):	___________________________
High Heel Worship:	___________________________
Homage With Tongue:	___________________________
Hot Waxing:	___________________________
Housework:	___________________________
Human Pony:	___________________________
Human Puppy:	___________________________
Humiliation In Private:	___________________________
Humiliation In Public:	___________________________
Ice Cubes:	___________________________
Including Others:	___________________________
Infantilism:	___________________________
Injections:	___________________________
Interrogations:	___________________________
Intricate Rope Bondage:	___________________________
Kidnapping:	___________________________
Kneeling:	___________________________
Leather Restraints:	___________________________
Lecturing:	___________________________
Licking:	___________________________
Massage (getting):	___________________________
Massage (giving):	___________________________
Medical Scenes:	___________________________
Mommy Play:	___________________________
Mouth Bits:	___________________________
Mummification (saran wrap etc):	___________________________
Nipple torment: (clamps etc.)	___________________________
Oral/Anal Play:	___________________________
Orgasm Control:	___________________________
Orgasm Denial:	___________________________
Over-the-Knee Spanking:	___________________________
Phone Sex:	___________________________
Piercing (perm):	___________________________
Piercing (temp):	___________________________
Pussy Whipping:	___________________________
Pussy Worship:	___________________________
Religious Scenes:	___________________________
Riding Crops:	___________________________
Scratching:	___________________________
Sensory Deprivation:	___________________________
Serving as Ashtray:	___________________________
Serving as Furniture:	___________________________
Serving as Maid:	___________________________
Serving as Pony:	___________________________
Serving Orally:	___________________________
Serving:	___________________________
Sex in Scene:	___________________________
Sexual Deprivation:	___________________________
Shaving:	___________________________
Single Tail (light/sensual):	___________________________
Single Tail (moderate/heavy)	___________________________
Spanking:	___________________________
Speculums (vaginal):	___________________________
Spreader Bars:	___________________________
Stocks:	___________________________
Straight Jacket:	___________________________
Strap-on Dildos:	___________________________
Supplying Victims:	___________________________
Suspension (inverted):	___________________________
Suspension:	___________________________
Swapping:	___________________________
Swinging:	___________________________
Tape Gags:	___________________________
Tattooing:	___________________________
Teasing:	___________________________
Tickling:	___________________________
Triple Penetration:	___________________________
Uniforms:	___________________________
Verbal Humiliation:	___________________________
Videoed Scenes:	___________________________
Voyeurism:	___________________________
Whipping (cat o’ nine tails etc.):	___________________________
Wrestling:	___________________________

Did we forget anything? Something you really LIKE? Something you really DON’T LIKE? Please add it to the bottom of the list!

Important Questions:

Physical Concerns - Do you have any medical conditions, chronic or otherwise, that the Top should know about? (Epilepsy, weak shoulders, skin Allergy to latex, etc.) Are you on any prescription medications? Etc.

Mental Concerns - Do you have any phobias or mental conditions that the Top should know about? (Fear of heights, Claustrophobia, MPD, etc.)

Limits - Are there any specific scene-related things you will not do?

Fetishes - Are there any specific scene-related things that you really like?

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This checklist is public domain and may be copied & used by anyone. Many thanks to all who have contributed, as this list is a "best of" of many different lists and our own ideas combined.