There are a two primary reasons for this checklist, 1) Safety. In all scenes safety should be paramount. This checklist is created to cover health issues, safety issues,
as well as personal preferences and experiences. 2) Communication. Sometimes we dont quite know all the questions to ask or how to communicate to our partner what we
want, this checklist will help you establish a greater level of communication and understanding.
This list is designed primarily for the submissive, slave, bottom, or switch. However, it is a good idea for a Dom/Domme, Master/Mistress, top or switch to fill out the
applicable information as well. If both parties fill out this checklist then the compatibility between partners can be examined.
0 (zero) indicates you are in NO way interested in doing that activity.
1(one) indicates you do not want to or like to do this activity but might for the right person, under the right circumstances.
2(two) indicates you are willing to do this activity, although it isnt one of your favorites.
3(three) indicates you are willing to do this activity occasionally.
4(four) indicates you are willing to do this activity on a regular basis.
5(five) indicates you love doing this activity as often as possible.
? indicates you are not familiar with the activity or do not understand the question
/ - indicates that you understand the activity but are unsure of how to answer
Medications: Have you taken any medications, including Aspirin within the last 4 - 6 hours. Please include any Prescription medication you are on.
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0 - 5
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Abrasion/Abrasive Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Acrophilia (arousal from heights) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Acrotomphilia (arousal from stumps or amputees) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Adult Baby |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Aftercare (at finish of play) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Age Role Play (Specify Age) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Agalmatophilia (arousal by sex with statues) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Amazon Women |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anal Beads |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anal Play (stimulation play of the anus) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anal Plugs (large) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anal Plugs (small) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anal Plug (public, under clothes) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anal Sex (giving, strap on) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anal Sex (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Animal Role Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anilingus (giving oral/anal stimulation) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anilingus (receiving oral/anal stimulation) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Ankle Restraints |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Anthropomorphic (self contrived or false amputation) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Arm or Leg Sleeves (arm binders) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Aromas |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Asphyxiation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Attraction for Uncircumcised Penis |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Auctioned as Slave |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Auctioned (for specified use by purchaser) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Auto-Erotic Asphyxiation (to heighten sexual pleasure) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Ball Gag |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Ball/Testicle Stretching |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bareback (sexual intercourse without using a condom) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Barosmia (arousal from the smell of flagellation) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bastinado (beating the soles of feet) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bathroom Use Control |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Battery Play (9 Volt) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
BBW (Big Beautiful Women) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Begging |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Being Boxed (coffin, crate, cage, etc) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Being Serviced (sexually) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Belly Dancing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Belly Punching |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Ben Wa Balls |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bestiality (specify animal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bicourious |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bisexuality |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Biting |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Blackmail/Financial Subjection |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Blindfolds (being blindfolded) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Blood Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Blow Up Sex Dolls |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Blue Balls (ball torture) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Body Bag |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Body Piercing (temp) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Body Piercing (permanent) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (ropes) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (cuffs) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (duct tapes) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (heavy) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (Japanese) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (light) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (long, extended time) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (outdoor setting) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (private setting) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (public setting, under clothes) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bondage (steel, wire, metal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Boot Worship |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Branding or Cauterization Branding |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Breast/Chest Bondage |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Breast Flagellation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Breast/Chest Fucking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Breast Torture |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Breath Control/Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Brown Showers (Scat) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Bruises |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Butch/Femme Role Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Butt Plugs |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cages |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Canes (hard) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Canes (light) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Canes (caning as punishment) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Canes (sensual) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Canes (Tattoo) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Castration Fantasy |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Catheters |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cat O Nine Tails (flogger) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cat O Nine Tails (knotted) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cattle Prod |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
CBT (Cock, Ball Torture) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cells/Closets/Confined Spaces (locked in) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Chains (hung from, wrapped in, confined) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Chamber Pot Use |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Chair Bondage |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Chastity Belt (short term) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Chastity Belt (Multi day) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Chauffeuring |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Choking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Chores (domestic service) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Circumcised Penis |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Clitoris Bondage |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Clitoris Piercing (permanent) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Clitoris Piercing (temp) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Clitoris Vacuum Pumping |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Clothespins |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cock Worship |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Collar and Leash |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Collars (worn in Private) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Collars (worn in Public) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Competitions (with other subs/slaves/bottoms) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Consensual Non-Consensuality |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Corsets (casual wearing) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Corsets (trained waist reduction) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Corsets (for purpose of body modification) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Crawling |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cross-Dressing/Gender bending |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Crucifixion |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cuffs (metal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cuffs (leather) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cunnilingus (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cunnilingus (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cunnilingus (while menstruating) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cunnilingus (while urinating) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cupping |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Cutting |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Dacryphlia (arousal from tears) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Damsel in Distress Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Deep Throating |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Denied Orgasm |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Dental Gags Retractors |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Dental Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Dilation (sphincter relaxation) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Dildo (using on self) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Dildo (using on partner) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Directed Bisexuality |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Directed Daily Activities |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Dirty Talk |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Dirty Sex (mud, dirt, oil, rubbish) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Discipline |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Double Penetration (dildos) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Double Penetration (multiple partners) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Douching |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
D/s, Domination, and submission |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Edge Play (extending the boundaries of play) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Electric Torture |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Electric Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Enema (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Enema (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Enema (for cleaning) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Enema (for punishment) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Enforced Chastity |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Erotic Dance (doing) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Erotic Dance (watching) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Erotic Humiliation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Examinations (medical) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Examinations (physical) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Examinations (publicly as slave) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Exercise (forced) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Exhibitionism (friends) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Exhibitionism (strangers) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Eye Contact Requirements |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Eye Contact Restrictions |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Face Slapping |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fantasy Abandonment |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fantasy Abduction |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fantasy Gang Rape |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fantasy Rape |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fantasy of Rendered or Unconscious Men/Women |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fear (being scared) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Feathers and Fur play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Feces play (human on body) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Feces play (animal on body) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Feces play (human on face) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Feces play (animal on face) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Feces play (eating) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fellatio (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fellatio (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fellatio (mutual) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fellatio (while urinating) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fellatio (condom covered) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Female Body Builders |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Female Ejaculation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Female to Female (strap on penetration anal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Female to Female (strap on penetration virginal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Female to Male (strap on penetration anal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Femoral Intercourse (fucking closed thighs) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fighting/Catfight |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Finger Sucking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fire Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fisting (anal, giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fisting (anal, receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fisting (vaginal, giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fisting (vaginal, receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Fisting (double) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Flame play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Flogging (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Flogging (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Following Orders |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Food Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Foot Binding |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Foot Bondage |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Foot Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Foot Licking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Foot Massage |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Foot Worship |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Bedwetting |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Cross Dressing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Dressing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Eating |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Domestic Service |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Feminization |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Homosexuality |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Heterosexuality |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Masturbation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Panty/Pants Wetting |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Nudity (private) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Nudity (public) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Nudity (with group) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Oral Sex |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Servitude |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Forced Smoking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Frottage (arousal from the rubbing of clothed bodies) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Full Head Hoods |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Gags (cloth) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Gags (dental) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Gags (inflatable) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Gags (phallic) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Gags (scarf) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Gags (tape) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Gas Mask |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Genital Clamps |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Genital Sex |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Genitorture (light) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Genitorture (heavy) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Giantess |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Given Away to Another Dominant (temp) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Given Away to Another Dominant (permanent) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Glory Hole |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Golden Showers (on body) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Golden Showers (on face, hair, in mouth) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
G-spot |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Gun Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hair Bondage |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hair Cutting (head) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hair Cutting (body) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hair Holding |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hair Pulling |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hairbrushes (spanked with) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hand Cuffs |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hand Jobs (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hand Jobs (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hand Licking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Harems (belonging to) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Harems (serving with others) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Harnessing (leather) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Harnessing (rope) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Have clothing chosen for you |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Having food chosen for you |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Head (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Head (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Head binding |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Head Restraint |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Head Shaving |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Heat Play (wax, ointment, cigarette) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
High Heel Worship |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hoods |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hot Creams |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hot Oils |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hot Waxing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Housework (doing) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Housework (doing nude, scantly clothed) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Human Furniture (foot stool, chair, table) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Human Pet (Cat, Dog, Horse) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Human Toilet |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Humiliation (private) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Humiliation (public) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hypnotism |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hypnotic Female Domination |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Hypnotized Men |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Ice Cubes |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Ice Enemas |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Immobilization |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Including Others |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Infantilism |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Infibulation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Inflatable Toys |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Initiations / Gauntlets |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Injections |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Insertable Inflatable Toys |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Interrogations |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Intricate (Japanese) Rope Bondage |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Jacking Off |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Kalis Teeth Bracelet |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Kegal Exercises |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Keloids (cutting and raising scars) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Kidnapping |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Kissing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Kneeling |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Kneeling (long) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Knife Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Kundalini (Chi) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Labia Enlargement |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Labia Saline Injections |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Labia Stretching |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Labia Clips |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Labia Weights |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Latex Clothing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Lactation play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Lactating Women |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Large Insertable Toys |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Lead on Leash |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Leather Clothing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Leatherman/woman |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Leather Restraints |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Lectures for Misbehavior |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Leg Sleeve/Binder |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Licking (floor) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Licking (people) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Licking (toilet bowl) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Lifting and Carrying cradle style in arms |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Lingerie (on your partner) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Lingerie (wearing) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Liquid Rubber |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Litter Box Using |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Manacles, Shackles, leg irons |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Manicures (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Manicures (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Masturbation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Masturbation (in front of partner) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Masturbation (in front of others) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Masturbation (with same sex group) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Medical Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Men in Underwear |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Menstruation Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Mind Control |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Mind Fucking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Modeling for Erotic Photos |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
M/s Master/Mistress/slave |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Multiple Orgasms |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Mummification |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Name Change (for scene) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Name Change (legal, permanent) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Name Change (online) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Necrophilia (arousal by someone in corpse like state, or corpse) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Needle Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Nipple Clamps |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Nipple Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Nipple Rings (piercing) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Nipple Sucking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Nipple Torture |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Nipple Weights |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Non Penetrative Sex |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Nymphomania (abnormal sexual appetite) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
O Kee Pa (the Sun Dance) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Objectification (being Property) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Orgasm Control |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Orgasm Denial |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Orgasm on Command |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Outdoor Sceneing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Outdoor Sex |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Over the Knee Spanking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Paddles (leather) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Paddles (studded) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Paddles (wooden) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pain (mild) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pain (medium) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pain (severe) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pain Slut |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Panty Wetting |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pelvic Floor Muscle Control |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Permanent Record of Sessions (video, photographs) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Persona Training (in scene) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Personality Modification |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Phone Sex (commercial provider) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Phone Sex (serving Dom) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Phone Sex (serving Doms friends) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Piercing (permanent) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Piercing (temp) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pinching |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Piqurer (stabbing someone with small objects in crowds) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Plaster Casts |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Plastic Surgery |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Plastic Wrap |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Plushie Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pony Girl/Boy |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Postillionage (inserting lubricated finger into anus) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Practice Save Sex |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Prostitution (fantasy) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Prostitution (forced) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Prostitution (real) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Prison Scenes |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Public Exposure |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Public Sex |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pumping |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Punch Fucking (extreme fisting) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Punishment (discipline) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Punishment Scene |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pussy Whipping |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pussy Worship |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Pygmalionism (sex with mannequins, statues, or blow-up dolls) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Queening (forcing vagina into mouth and nose) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Rape and Abduction Fantasy |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Religious Scenes |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Restrictive rules on Behavior |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Riding Crops |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Riding the Wooden Horse (crotch torture) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Rimming (anus licking) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Rituals/ Ceremonies (non-religious) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Rubber, Gummi, Latex, Spandex, Wetsuits, Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sacred Sex/Sacred Sexuality |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sadomasochism |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Safe Call |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Saline Injection/Infusion (breasts, labia, testicles-specify) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Saran Wrapping (mummification) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Scarification |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Scarves and Mask Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Scratching (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Scratching (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Secret Sex in Public |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sensory Deprivation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving as Maid/Butler |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving as an Art Object |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving as an Ashtray |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving as toilet (feces) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving as toilet (urine) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving as Waitress/Waiter |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving Other Dom (supervised) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving Other Dom (unsupervised) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Serving Orally (sexual) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sexual Addiction |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sexual Deprivation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sexual intercourse with older person (Gerontophilia) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sexual Sadism |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sharps Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Shaved Genitals (having) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Shaved Genitals (on partner) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Shaving (below neck) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Shaving (head) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Single-Tail Whip |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Skinny Dipping |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Slavery |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Slave Marking (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sleep Deprivation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sleeping Bondage (heavy) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sleeping Bondage (light) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sleeping on Floor |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sleep sacks |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Slings/Swings |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Slutty Clothing (private) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Slutty Clothing (public) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Smoking females or Smoking Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Sneezing Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spandex Clothing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spanking (giving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spanking (receiving) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spanking (belt, leather strap) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spanking (hand) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spanking with implement |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Speaking Restrictions |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Speculums (anal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Speculums (vaginal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spitting (on body) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spitting (in mouth) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Spreader Bars |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Standing In Corner |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Stocks/Pillory |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Straight Jackets |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated anally) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated vaginally) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Strap-on-dildos (sucking) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Strapping (full body beating) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Submission (private) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Submission (public) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Supplying new partners for Dom |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Suspension (horizontal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Suspension (inverted) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Suspension partially touching floor (on toes) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Suspension (upright) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Suspension by hook |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Swallowing Feces |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Swallowing Semen |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Swallowing Urine |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Swapping (w/ multiple couples) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Swapping (w/ one couple) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Swinging |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Switching |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Tampon Training (inserted in anus) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Tantra Tantric and Taoist Sex |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Tattoos (henna/temp) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Tattoos (permanent) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Teasing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Temperature Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
TENS unit (electrical toy) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
The Humbler |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
The Zipper |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Threesome (group sex, Mιnage a Trois) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Thumb Bondage |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Thumb Cuffs |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Tickling |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Toe Sucking |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Top/bottom |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Topping from the bottom |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Total Power Exchange |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Triple Penetration (dildo) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Triple Penetration (multiple partners) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
24/7 |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Uniforms |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Upskirt, Stockings, Nylons, Pantyhose Fetish |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Urethral Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Use of non-verbal Safe words |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Use of Safe Words |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Vacuum Body Bag/Vacuum Bondage Bed |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Vaginal intercourse |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Verbal Abuse |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Verbal Humiliation |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Vibrator (external) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Vibrator (internal) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Video Porn/BDSM watching |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Video (recordings of you) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Video Taped Scenes |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Violet Wand |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Voyeurism (watching partner with others) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Water Sports |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Water Torture |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wax Hair Removal |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wax Play |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wear Rubber/Latex Clothing |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wearing Boots |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wearing High Heels |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wearing Uniforms (Military, Fireman, Police, Sport, Nazi, etc.) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wearing Symbolic Jewelry |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Weight Gain (enforced) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Weight Loss (enforced) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Whipping |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wooden Paddles |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wrestling (other subs) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wrestling (your partner) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wrestling Females |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Wrestling Males |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Zooerasty (sexual intercourse with animals) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |
Zoophilia (Sexual enjoyment stroking/fondling of animals) |
Yes |
No |
_____ |